The Five Love Languages Workshop Presented by Shenaaz Moos, Registered Counsellor We all lead busy lives and want more time, fun, love and laughter in it. Unfortunately these require effort and most of us want a quick fix, instant connection and happiness. There are some cheats and short cuts and I am excited and eager […]
Sibling Rivalry on Expresso Morning Show
Last week Wednesday 7 August 2019, I had the absolute pleasure of being a guest on the Expresso Morning show on SABC3. We discussed Sibling Rivalry. There were many issues raised, questions asked and answered. Some examples include:
- Is it an unrealistic fantasy desire have siblings to always get along?
- How can a parents’ behaviour contribute to, and perpetuate sibling fights?
- How can parents decrease fights between siblings, and increase harmony in the household?
- Can parents unknowingly be the cause of sibling fighting sometimes?
- How can ongoing sibling fighting negatively impact family relationships?
Take a look to see what the answers were. Leave a comment if you enjoyed it or any questions if you have any.
Parenting Advice: Decreasing Sibling Fights in The Household https://youtu.be/Cvd9nRj_2zQ
LOVE YOUR CHILDREN INDIVIDUALISTICALLY, NOT COMPARATIVELY! – Shenaaz Moos
The Five Love Languages : Loving Ourselves to Love our kids
An event hosted by Baabul-ilm Montessori to empower, motivate and inspire women, mothers, nurturers of today. The workshop will focus in finding happiness in everyday things by applying a holistic approach in the themes. The workshop is from 9am to 12pm.
Shenaaz Moos of Happy Confident Me will be talking about The Five Love Languages : Loving Ourselves to Love Our Kids. Other topics include Our Religion, Work & Productivity and Health. Other speakers include Mualima Zaitoon Ebrahim, Yumna Allie, Dr Ameerah Martin.
Emotionally Connecting to Your Child Session 2
EMOTIONALLY CONNECTING TO YOUR CHILD
If it feels like no matter what you try to say and do there is constant fighting, little or no communication between you and your child – then this workshop is for you.
Session 1 11/8
Orientation and Reflection
Looking at your own childhood and how its impacts your parenting.
Temperaments and Birth Order : understand and manage the different types.
Session 2 18/8
Learning to speak your child’s Love Language : Physical Touch, Gifts, Acts of Service & Quality Time
Session 3 25/8
How to control the Anger monster inside you
Understand the link between Perfectionism and anger
Emotionally Connecting to Your Child Session 1
EMOTIONALLY CONNECTING TO YOUR CHILD
If it feels like no matter what you try to say and do there is constant fighting, little or no communication between you and your child – then this workshop is for you.
Session 1 11/8
Orientation and Reflection
Looking at your own childhood and how its impacts your parenting.
Temperaments and Birth Order : understand and manage the different types.
Session 2 18/8
Learning to speak your child’s Love Language : Physical Touch, Gifts, Acts of Service & Quality Time
Session 3 25/8
How to control the Anger monster inside you
Understand the link between Perfectionism and anger
‘Things I Wish I’d Known Before I Got (Gary Chapman) Book Review
When I was faced with many clients struggling with marital issues I knew that I needed to read or listen to this book on my reading list. Not only did I gain knowledge for them but learnt a thing or two to help me in my own marriage. As young married people we enter into a marriage from a place of blissful ignorance thinking love will get us through any challenge. Until a life stressor like job loss, illness, death of a family member or child shakes our foundation to the core.
Gary Chapman writes a relatable and humorous book with all his own real life marriage mistakes that just makes the content concrete. There are twelve chapters and each enlightened me further into the many reasons why marriages can fail and crumble very early on in the union. I will list them all and give you my the lesson I took away.
